Travel Like You Mean it (in Paris)

Paris is a city so commonly present in our media culture today that everyone, literally everyone, constructs their own imagine of Paris. After learning 6 years of French, I constructed my own as well, until I was in Paris. 

Both times when I visited Paris, I was excited to finally use all I learnt through 6 years of French class and always tried my best to converse in French. However, later I realized that was rather an essential part of the authentic experience for me. I saw a friendly Paris with not-so-arrogant Parisians, unlike how many described the city. Perhaps the Parisians saw the side of me trying to immerse in their world. I meant it with my heart, vowed to see Paris not as an outsider. As opposed to how well you speak the language or how much history you know about the place, it is more about the open mind and the effort to learn something new. It is a state of mind for traveling and living equally. 

The first time I was there, I was compelled to visit all the sites, including the museums, Eiffel Tower, Notre Dame, Champs Elysees, Arc de Triomphe...etc. And I think it really gave me a basic understanding of some history, architecture and art in Paris. I came to Paris highly anticipated and departed with full awe of the city. However, throughout my second stay in Paris, I was able to see the city through my own eyes. 

There are many cafes like this throughout Parisian streets. Designed for people-watching, the chairs and tables all face outwards. Little did they know, the spectators blend into the scene and weaves together an experience in Paris.

Take a stroll across the bridges connecting the city divided by La Seine, enjoy the breeze, sunshine and chatter around you. Look at the crowds of young Parisians chilling by the river bank.

Swing by 6th arrondissement, I walked along Boulevard Saint-Germain. On a beautiful and warm spring day, it is full of energy. I stopped by the world class chocolatier Patrick Roger and picked up a few pieces of heaven. What can taste more Paris? 

Sometimes feeling the city isn't about visiting as much spots as possible in the shortest amount of time, instead slow down the itinerary and release all your senses.